Intelligenc - Contrary and contradiction

Sometimes some values that are contrary or contradiction against one another. There are a number of practical strategies we can use for dealing:

Accept both
When we accept both sides our minds then seek to understand this in practical terms. Understand them in details may lead to a new definition or value. A fast slow car might be a slow car with a fast acceleration.

Combine them
This is a deliberate design process. Combining peace and excitement may mean seeking excitement from a stable base.

Alternate
This means switching from one value to the contrary value and back again. You can be sensitive at times and ruthless at other times.

Parallel thinking
Design usually requires that a range of values is kept in mind the whole time. A low cost car that provide touches with luxury features.

Wisdom involves avoiding those harsh rules which we force upon ourselves because they are useful in some situations. Behaviour can be situation-dependent rather than ego-dependent. We need use different approach in different situation.